Memento mori.

Another Memorial Day come and gone. PBS played the annual extravaganza in Washington D.C., replete with stars of stage, screen, and studio, in some respects bizarre beyond description. It always strikes me as odd that a day reserved to commemorate the dead from this nation's wars should carry such hyper-patriotic overtones. As I watch, I keep wanting to say, "Take it down a notch - that's the kind of talk that got them all killed." It's long been my contention that the very ostentatious hero-ization of our active military and veterans is, at its heart, an effort to make our pointless wars seem somehow noble and just. The laptop bombardiers crowing "hero!" most loudly are the ones who gladly see their heroes shipped off for a fifth tour of duty. Doesn't bear close inspection.

Perhaps even stranger is the celebration of the fiftieth anniversary of the start of the American war in Vietnam - like that was something to celebrate. Obama spoke to this point during his Memorial Day address at the Vietnam memorial wall, and I have to say that his central point was one that Reagan might have made twenty years ago.

And one of the most painful chapters in our history was Vietnam -- most particularly, how we treated our troops who served there. You were often blamed for a war you didn't start, when you should have been commended for serving your country with valor. You were sometimes blamed for misdeeds of a few, when the honorable service of the many should have been praised. You came home and sometimes were denigrated, when you should have been celebrated. It was a national shame, a disgrace that should have never happened.

Um... really, Mr. President? We've heard this trope before - the insinuation that people opposed to the war blamed the people fighting it, spat on them when they returned, etc. Bullshit. They were our friends, our brothers, our uncles, our fathers. A lie like this assumes that people don't remember how close every 18-24 year old male was to being press-ganged into that war via the draft. It was not us and them; it was us and us. What's more, many of them were at the forefront of resistance to the war. I have a local vet to thank for much of what I know about that awful conflict.

And... the "actions of a few"? What few? The people running the administration at the time? This makes it sound as though Vietnam was some noble enterprise sullied by isolated incidents of nastiness. What could be further from the truth? Vietnam was a dirty war of malevolent intent from the very beginning, not a mistake or a tragic chapter - a crime. It is a crime that should not be blamed on those forced to participate in it; but rather on those who formulated that policy that resulted in the destruction of three countries.

That's where that "hero" jiu-jitsu comes in. Criticize the war and the pro-war pirates claim you're criticizing the troops, as if the troops are responsible for the conflict. They were not then, and they are not today. That's down to us ... and to the scoundrels heaping praise on our military as they plan yet another pointless war.

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